Please tell me that there is still at least one Christian man out there left who still believes that they do not have to "taste and see" before they walk down the aisle with you. I kinda expect that from men who are not saved but when the man claims to be a Christian then I expect that they would understand where I am coming from. I think as women we have been afraid to stand up for what we believe in because we feel that we might not get a man. News flash though! Sleeping with the man a million and one times will still not guarantee that he will put a ring on it.
It is amazing to me the reasons that men come up with as to why you should sleep with them even though they are not your husband. Sometimes it is so amusing that you almost want to just drop flat on the ground and really roll over with laughter. If as a Christian man you feel that this is okay to do then go right ahead. Just don't try to force it down someone else's throat. How about finding a "christian" woman who believes that she also wants to "taste and see"
At the end of the day it is a matter of choice. There are some Christian women who believe that if it means doing without a man they are going to follow what the Word of God says. So if that is you then carry on, there is nothing wrong with you. Even though people around you might want you to feel like you have two heads. There is nothing worst than having allowed someone to convince you that "since we will be getting married we can do it" Only to find that after the deed he has changed his mind. It is better that he moved on and you did not share your body with him than the other way around. It is much easier to deal with as far as I am concerned.
Well till we speak again. Peace
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Friday, February 6, 2009
Taking Care of Men
Okay if I see one more article or book that tells us how to treat men I am going to scream. We get it! We know how to treat you! When is someone going to tell them how to treat us *roll eyes*
Yes we know you are visual but have you ever stopped to think that we are visual too. Why is it the man with the biggest gut want the woman with the flattest tummy. Especially when they have a few shillings.
From talk show, to website, to magazine to entire books it is how to please men, it is what to do to make your man marry you, it is what to do to keep your man from straying. Stop already! Is this some sort of conspiracy - lolrotf. I am convinced that somewhere out there men are paying these people to write these things because there is no way that so many of them could believe that only women need lessons.
How about someone telling men that they have a roll to play too! Hello! You don't have the patent at all on how to treat women so just as how women read the magazines and the books and search the internet maybe it is time for some of you to start doing the same. We are not that complicated at all. Trust me!
Take my advice start treating your woman how she is to be treated and see what happens. Be honest for a change. If you know that all you want out of the relationship is a good time then tell that to her up front so she can decide if she is fine with that. Surprise, surprise there are some women out there who are cool with that. Why do I say that? That way everyone knows upfront from day one not to expect anything out of this relatuonship. But trouble comes when you don't say anything and one year go by then 2 years and of course you know this woman begins to think all is well.
While we are coming clean here is a news flash. Don't have sex if you are not ready to be a father for the only fool proof contraceptive is not to do anything. I would safely say all men who are having sex kinda have an idea where babies come from. Yet somehow it only dawn on them when the woman says "I have missed my period" then all of a sudden there is major panic. hahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahaaha. Suddenly you realize that you are not ready to be father but lost all sense of biology during the act. Well, well most women want babies so most of them will want to keep the child so take my foolish advice and only sleep with women who you would want to have a child with. That would save you and the woman a lot of grief.
Well I am out of here. See you next time to continue with the subject
Yes we know you are visual but have you ever stopped to think that we are visual too. Why is it the man with the biggest gut want the woman with the flattest tummy. Especially when they have a few shillings.
From talk show, to website, to magazine to entire books it is how to please men, it is what to do to make your man marry you, it is what to do to keep your man from straying. Stop already! Is this some sort of conspiracy - lolrotf. I am convinced that somewhere out there men are paying these people to write these things because there is no way that so many of them could believe that only women need lessons.
How about someone telling men that they have a roll to play too! Hello! You don't have the patent at all on how to treat women so just as how women read the magazines and the books and search the internet maybe it is time for some of you to start doing the same. We are not that complicated at all. Trust me!
Take my advice start treating your woman how she is to be treated and see what happens. Be honest for a change. If you know that all you want out of the relationship is a good time then tell that to her up front so she can decide if she is fine with that. Surprise, surprise there are some women out there who are cool with that. Why do I say that? That way everyone knows upfront from day one not to expect anything out of this relatuonship. But trouble comes when you don't say anything and one year go by then 2 years and of course you know this woman begins to think all is well.
While we are coming clean here is a news flash. Don't have sex if you are not ready to be a father for the only fool proof contraceptive is not to do anything. I would safely say all men who are having sex kinda have an idea where babies come from. Yet somehow it only dawn on them when the woman says "I have missed my period" then all of a sudden there is major panic. hahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahaaha. Suddenly you realize that you are not ready to be father but lost all sense of biology during the act. Well, well most women want babies so most of them will want to keep the child so take my foolish advice and only sleep with women who you would want to have a child with. That would save you and the woman a lot of grief.
Well I am out of here. See you next time to continue with the subject
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
Later Comers to Church
Have you ever wondered what it is that some people are doing every Sunday morning why they are always late for church? Okay so here is my 2 cents! They have no regard for people's time. Neither do they have any respect for the pastor. I am not talking about the person who is late once in a while now. I am talking about the persons who are late most or every Sunday.
You know why I know that they can do better? That same persons is sometimes the first person to get to work. When getting to church late becomes a habit then you are disrespecting the ushers, the praise team, the choir and all the persons who are involved in the service. Especially when you are a member of the church then this should be something that is the exception rather than the norm.
How would you feel if you were in charge and people just waltzed in anytime they felt like it. when it comes to the things of God sometimes we take too much of a que sera, sera attitude. I guess because we feel that God cannot fire us then it is okay to just treat this any old how. If we keep turning up to work late this might result in discipline or ever firing. Why then can we not give God to same courtesy by getting to His house of worship on time?
For the persons who are perpetual late comers to church it is time to turn over a new leaf. If you have kids to get ready, then teach them to select their clothes from Saturday night so that everything can be prepared. You should also prepare your clothes from Saturday night,. Try them on to make sure that they still fit. Do not wait until minutes to the time that church will start to look for your clothes. Chances are there might be some button missing or some other distraction. Selecting the clothes from over night will give you a chance to fix whatever problems there are.
Do you think the devil wants you to go to church? If he cannot stop you then he will make sure you are late. You have an idea how long it takes to get ready and get to church on time so take that into consideration. If it is not okay for you to go to work late then it is not okay for you to go to church late either.
See you next time!
You know why I know that they can do better? That same persons is sometimes the first person to get to work. When getting to church late becomes a habit then you are disrespecting the ushers, the praise team, the choir and all the persons who are involved in the service. Especially when you are a member of the church then this should be something that is the exception rather than the norm.
How would you feel if you were in charge and people just waltzed in anytime they felt like it. when it comes to the things of God sometimes we take too much of a que sera, sera attitude. I guess because we feel that God cannot fire us then it is okay to just treat this any old how. If we keep turning up to work late this might result in discipline or ever firing. Why then can we not give God to same courtesy by getting to His house of worship on time?
For the persons who are perpetual late comers to church it is time to turn over a new leaf. If you have kids to get ready, then teach them to select their clothes from Saturday night so that everything can be prepared. You should also prepare your clothes from Saturday night,. Try them on to make sure that they still fit. Do not wait until minutes to the time that church will start to look for your clothes. Chances are there might be some button missing or some other distraction. Selecting the clothes from over night will give you a chance to fix whatever problems there are.
Do you think the devil wants you to go to church? If he cannot stop you then he will make sure you are late. You have an idea how long it takes to get ready and get to church on time so take that into consideration. If it is not okay for you to go to work late then it is not okay for you to go to church late either.
See you next time!
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